OkCupidReviews 646

Girls, please be aware if you encounter a guy called Julian 30 years old, telephone number *******310 and he claimed he lives in 518 Gregory Ave, Weehawken, NJ please do not respond to his message. He is a catfish, he will make you to drive all the way to his resident and the door man will tell you that he is not living there. As soon as you tell him you are there, he will turn off his phone. Please stay away from him. Thank you for reading.

I was billed 12.88... 3 times when I only subscribed to one month. Even so after being billed for thee month thee times for 41.00 my account still was not activated. They have no customer service number. When try to access your purchases via okcupid app it only supports Google Play Pay even though they accept credit, debit and PayPal. You have to email your issue and are the told they can't reply to every request or complaint. If they feel your issue is of any worth they will reply as soon as they can on a priority basis. WOW!

It's a horrible website that will suspend your account if you say the wrong thing. If you give criticism about the women on the website, mind you my opinions were specifically about how I felt that OKCupid caters to Caucasian women on the website, and mind you I'm a Caucasian man, if you say ANYTHING negative or in the ballpark of negative about women in general, especially Caucasian women, they will suspend your account. A friend of mine who used to be on OKCupid warned me to be very very careful about what you say in your profile or else they'll suspend your account, and that's exactly what happened to my account.

So be careful creating a profile, answering all their questions (which takes forever), because if they don't like what you put on your profile they will suspend you without warning. Another friend of mine was communicating with a woman on their site, everything was going great, then all of a sudden his account was suspended and he was like, what the heck? Come to find out they didn't like how something was worded in his profile.

It's a site that caters to Caucasian professional women. You should read what some of these women say in their profiles about men! It's amazing! It's a horrible website. Be careful. The amount of time you invest in their questions and profile, by the time you get comfortable, God forbid you say something which they deem inappropriate, because they'll suspend your account. And, when you email them to ask what's wrong what happened, they'll ignore your email. They're horrible!

I know friends of mine of color that have been on there that have had the same thing happen. I can only imagine one of their delicate Caucasian women probably complaining about the scary African American man and they suspended his account. They are HORRIBLE!

I signed up for this service yesterday even paid to be upgraded so I could possibly contact more members I e-mailed all the women I could on their site I guess an crime for this website haha This is my e-mail that I sent to all the women (Hi there beautiful girl how are you? I seem to have lost my heart somewhere could you possibly help me find it?) I know it's pretty bad right? Haha So today I try to log in and it says my account was suspended! Why? For just trying to contact members? Haha Run far away from this one it's an complete scam!

As i look at all of the people complaining, most of the complaints are 100% wrong. I have been on here 15 years (before it was called OKCupid!)

The thing that really sets them apart from every other site are the MATCHING QUESTIONS. In the beginning they merged with a pretty cool online question/quiz site. This gave them the ability to instantly match people with similar interests using an algorithm. If you answer enough question, it is surprisingly accurate. My two longest relationships were 99% matches.

I have discovered the algorithm starts to become more effective at about 300 questions. That seems like a lot at first, just make it a habit to answer 10 questions every time you log in and only answer questions you care about. Skip questions that aren't important. This makes the match percentage more reliable.

LOL... they should hire me as an online dating coach!

I found that a large percentage of people that hate online dating also hate traditional dating. Few people love it. Online dating is very similar to online job hunting, nobody loves that either. But we have to work, so we accept that it sucks. We also understand the power of the internet to pinpoint exactly what fits you best.

Dating apps are JUST TOOLS. If you pick the wrong tool for the job you cant really blame the tool. If you aren't using the tool correctly you arent going to get the expected results. I wonder if the people giving it 1 star also work for Match.com and POF.com, because the things they complain about are false.

When will Amazon Prime have an app? Select the features you want and they are delivered to you in two days!

Jerk outfit. Setup to steal your money. For free I saw attractive women. Once I paid they disappeared. Cancelled within 24 hours. Contacted my Credit Unions fraud department before the payment went through. I had already sent a message to OKcupid to refund based on their fraudulent claims. Of course, no response? The following day the fraud department called to see if I'd received any response from okc because they had gone ahead and processed my payment. Absolute scam. If you read the reviews on all the dating sites, none are as represented. Easy to steal from folks you don't have to face. Cowards?

OK Cupid wasted about 100 hours of my time, and cost me over $200, for nothing. I signed up years ago when single and looking for someone special. Their matching system based on questions answered seemed interesting, so I spent countless hours answering a bunch of random questions. Their matching system then showed me how I was a 90% match with some people who didn't seem attractive to me at all, while I was 50% or less with people who looked like a good fit. Just because people think similar thoughts doesn't make them a good match, they should understand that by now.
To make things worse, I pretty much got no responses from the people I swiped and messaged. Because everyone is accessible all the time, there is no incentive to connect.
I signed up for their A-list premium, which made absolutely no difference.
Meanwhile, I went on plenty of successful dates using Coffee Meets Bagel and found my one special person.
I forgot to cancel my A-listing (they didn't send me ANY reminders that I was being billed) and discovered a week ago that they have billed me hundreds of dollars of the years! When I pleaded them to verify that I had not been active on their site for months, they simply stated they can't do refunds. Sorry dude, thanks for the cash.

What a horrible company: wasting people's time and taking their money with greed. There are plenty of evil, greedy companies, but hey, at least at McDonald's I would get diabetes, and well, that's *something*.

I wish there were a way to filter those out of my age range from spamming me.
I am 61 male looking for a monogamous relationship yet in the last couple of weeks all the notifications I get of someone "liking" me are young women looking for "hookups" and non-monogamous. My profile states I am looking for a long term relationship. Those not within my age range or meet other criteria should not be allowed to contact or spam me. Then it's difficult to delete them all so I can see just the legit likes. It's to the point I am may opt-out of this site of they cannot do something to filter this. I think prostitution has invaded their site. And then trying to find contact information to receive help is non-existent. If OKcupid were interested in my business they would do something.

They take your photos and ask all kinds of personal questions just to suspend your account for no reason whatsoever, mysteriously after getting info on you. It leaves you feeling really scammed and violated. And of course this is after they have taken your credit card info. OKCupid is full of old and fake profiles, so if you are a real person you will have no place here other than to have your personal info in jeopardy. This is the worst dating site ever. They even have complaints against them in the BBB, with a grade of F! There is no customer service if you have a problem, and I can see why because there would not be enough customer service reps in the world to deal with this disaster. Don't do it! It's a scam and a rip off.

I am very sad that I have to lower my rating from 5-star to 3-star. Edit: And now to 2 stars. Every change in recent few years made it worse and worse. Also, every change of interface created tons of glitches. First the site stopped showing who visited you. It's o. K, because it made messaging and likes more important. Than they removed the possibility to see when someone was online. So you can be stuck in messaging someone, who wasn't there for years. Then they opted out messaging, unless you match with someone. It would be o. K, if girls were clever enough, to understand the principle of Liking and Matching. 90% of profiles now claim "Message me, I don't see likes". Recently they introduced some form of instant chat client. Which is so buggy, it's awful to use. Especially on mobile version. Speaking of mobile... I never could use mobile app, because it was not available for my region. And later because my device is not compatible. The most recent change is they limited number of Likes per day. It would be o. K, if it also wasn't so glitchy. Twice already my limit time expired, but magically it instantly renewed for another 24h on itself. The latest is that in Browse users you don't see those "who you liked" anymore. Are you people doing it deliberately, to destroy the site?

I must say I was free user all the time. And therefore it is still better than most other sites