Even though attempts to meet a friend of faith, or interest to date like minded faith based believers
I find that there is very little interaction or response to my invitation to communicate.
Either people have a preference, based on distance, age or more.
I understand some members may be out of reach but really no interest or even replies? Or even block someone because they shown interest - that's shallow not spiritual!
That make me a bit skeptical about this. I don't think many are open to opportunities and are not serious or diligent in their search.
Ever since my review, I have been getting creepy calls late night from people who insisted they spoke to me on whatsapp. I find it funny that it happened right after my review. The phone numbers are reflecting from a toll free number in the US. 855 and Michigan and Oregon. I will come back for an update after I speak to Christian Cafe themselves
I did get a free trial to check out this Christian dating site. As a Christian living in India, we are a minority and we tend to look for Christian sources outside India to turn to. This site was not just a site to find a partner but it was also to interact with other Christians. It started out great. I started out with writing on Forums, explaining my situation about living in India and finding Christians. I mentioned that God is in control and sought help and advice from other Christians and it was working out great until...
One fine day, I was stumbling on the Forums and found a lady in Africa with a similar situation like mine. I saw a mean reply comment on her Forum post saying, " Why can't you find people in your own country?"
I immediately went to her defence and posted, " I am in the same situation. We don't have enough Indians to date here."
I went around with my Forums, and few days later my Forum Post came under blast by "jtex406". He quoted my statement, " God is in control", and argued with it, saying, " God is not in control. You are in control". I told him if God is not control, who created Adam and Eve and if he was not in control, why did he banish Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden when they disobeyed him?
He then changed his tune saying God is in control and pushed an article link on me which was written by Christian people, but it wasn't Biblically based, but it was the views of other Christian leaders which I refused to read.
I called him out for bullying with the quoting and misquoting of my statement. He gathered all his White Christian friends against me on that post. I told them if this was their way of bullying a little Indian, let me remind you of how Goliath was slayed. I also requested not to show the article to me because I wanted some verses of the Bible.
I flagged his behaviour and wrote to Customer Service and they said he has a right to post it and sent me a link that he could do so. I sent them a screenshot of the post guidelines where he cannot debate someone's beliefs. That's what he was doing to me. Thinking back to the previous post about the African lady finding a foriegn man and how she was told to find men in her own town, I saw this as another way of attacking colored women and I addressed that. Instead of an apology, I got a defense statement."Watch your judgement". I told them it wasn't a judgement, it was feedback.
This site pretends to highlight christian singles but I don't think any of the women on it are! They don't have any more character than non believing women! Also if you don't live in a city of 4 million or more there won't be anyone on this site from your area! This site is a joke!
Have received no replies after giving numerous winks and some messages ihave received return mail from one member as he is a minister and I had questions. His answers were wonderful for me this is the kind of Godly man I would like to meet.
Have received no replies after giving numerous winks and some messages
It was easy for you to charge my payment. But like I knew even the Christians on the site are full of games and want a perfect person when in reality only Jesus is perfect. I am happy with my life God knows my purpose in life and is not for me to be playing the game of dating sites.
Thank you and much success.
It was easy for you to charge my payment.
It is sad that this dating site doesn't have more reviews. I love the site, because it is a true Christian dating site. I just think there are very few Christians willing to go on a dating site. Yet, you will find all kinds of "carnal" Christians on POF or Match. Why someone would call themselves a Christian, if it didn't matter to them, is a mystery to me?
It is the same situation for me in that there are very few Christian men from my state (Washington), in my age range (50-55) on there which makes it that much harder. I'm a firm believer that if it's meant to be, it will be.
I've been here before with no messages or contact's. So I'm not sure this will be any different. But I'm giving God a chance to put the right person in front of me and my wants and needs. We'll see, if the same thing happens again I won't renew again.
As there is no stated or discernible criteria for the match rating found on each profile pic, I believe it is actually counter-productive and even harmful if people use those ratings to judge prospective matches. For example, a lady termed "100% match!" had virtually nothing in common with me, and lived fourteen hours away in a different time zone.
EHarmony does it way better; they ask about seventy questions about your interests, lifestyles and attitudes, then compare your answers with prospective matches, with actual graphics so you literally see how well you line up.
It's getting tougher and tougher finding a love heart. Of course, some people do it offline somewhere in the cafes or bars, while I got used to use dating services. I chose this one because I liked the design of this company and the navigation on their website. It's much better than hyped tinder or something like that. I found here couple of interesting people who gained my attention and we started chatting. They were pretty cute and friendly when they communicated with me. I hope we will be able to meet one day and big thanks to this service as it connects people from various countries of our world.
Billing was easy and the price was appealing as compared with other similar sites. I like that once a contact is made the contact remains in your contact list until you actually delete them. I have been on another site where contacts will automatically disappear without any notice. I could never understand why this would happen, but it is frustrating, Christian Cafe is not like that and I really appreciate that.
I can't really give you a good rating at all. Not yet! I have installed all my information and pictures, but I have not been able to experience looking, reading and searching at how the dynamics of this singles site is set up. I have no idea. Only recommending to ask me or any other new customer this question after they have been on the site and tried it out for a week or two. Don't you think so? It's like you are asking after ordering a meal at a restaurant, how was the meal before it is even served. Correct?
Being military, and always having to move, I never found it easy to find friends, much less a partner for life. Nevertheless, with CC, I found a beautiful young woman perfect for me in just three days... I can't wait to see where we go and what memories we make together! Thank you so much, Christian Cafe!
The population is tiny, but the quality is good if you lean towards conservative side. I haven't found that someone to make me cancel my subscription permanently, but I have made some very good friends.
If I could change one thing, it would be to allow users to specify height to the inch. Currently, height is by the two-inch range, e.g., 5'6"-5'8", 5'8"-5'10, etc.
Well. It seems like at least half of my matches when I do a search have not been active on here since mid-2021. I'm not sure why the ladies do not subscribe and only go for the free trial periods.
I have sent several introductory emails. The site shows that the emails were read. It would be nice for the ladies to respond to my emails even if they are not interested. I don't blame the site for this.
There appears to be a lack of eligible senior men on here in my area of Northern California. I wish more people were aware of your site. I think you have the best questions on the profile layout that I have seen so far.
There appears to be a lack of eligible men my age on here in my area of Northern California. I wish more people were aware of your site. I think you have the best questions on the profile layout that I have seen so far.
The site is good, there are so many good people to connect with, but unfortunately, most of them are far away and they are not willing to have a long distance relationship. Also, the people around me are not so many so it has been hard to connect with anyone. But it's a good experience... I've met and made good friends on site, but that is where it ends. So I am still believing God for a long term relationship that would soon lead to marriage
Easy sign up. Flexibility to write personal responses without word count limitation. I live in a tri-state metropolitan area. I find it odd no local members are responding. All responses are out of state which I find VERY odd!
There were choices of men i could choose. Race playing a factor also men response even if they don't want to pursue me. But disappointed there weren't more Adventist still i thought i wad signing up with an Adventist site.
I sent an email to customer service concerning my ability to search for my perspective criteria. I got no response.
2. Better Search criteria: When you select age, there should be a box to input the preferred age range.
3. "Race" or Ethnicity is important for some who want to date within or around there chosen cultural, ethnic, or racial group. This is the freedom of choice in dating and praying for a mate. When you select the race, ethnicity, or cultural criteria, the result of the selection should be the only results view for that particular instance.
3. Searches for the "exact" selective country.
I sent an email to customer service concerning my ability to search for my perspective criteria. I got no response.
2. Better Search criteria: When you select age, there should be a box to input the preferred age range.
3. "Race" or Ethnicity is important for some who want to date within or around there chosen cultural, ethnic, or racial group. This is the freedom of choice in dating and praying for a mate. When you select the race, ethnicity, or cultural criteria, the result of the selection should be the only results view for that particular instance.
3. Searches for the "exact" selective country.
I am happy being a member of this dating site because most of the members are genuine born again Christians. The profile pictures of the members are decent ones reflecting the Christian faith compared to other Christian dating sites. When I see a member dress like non Christians in a dating site, it disturbs my spirits and I quickly move to the next profile.
I am happy being a member of this dating site because most of the members are genuine born again Christians. The profile pictures of the members are decent ones reflecting the Christian faith compared to other Christian dating sites. Please keep it up
ChristianCafe.com has a rating of 2.6 stars from 128 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. ChristianCafe.com ranks 55th among Dating sites.
We're so glad you decided to be part of "the best Christian website" :)
In answer to your concern, it's not possible for members to have been inactive since mid-2021 because our system would have removed those profiles to our archives. We see you have a lot of matches, most of whom you've yet to view (which is where you'd see their Last On date).
Regardless of a member's last activity, it's important to make the most of your membership by viewing many profiles and introducing yourself to all who interest you - you never know where it can lead. Many members are hoping to see if they'll receive mail before deciding to return, so your message could be the spark to connect the two of you.
We have thousands of testimonials from former members who've met the love of their life. We'd love to receive your future testimonial :)