Today on tinder I get this pop up from tinder saying, "I feel like the profiles I see on tinder are real." Then there was an option to choose a star rating from 1 to 10 I think?

Most days I feel like my profile is the only real profile on tinder. I'm embarrassed to say that I have been on tinder for a couple of years. When I rarely get a match, it's most likely going to be fake. I end up spending hours swiping through nothing but fake profiles. Now tinder has a pop-up asking me if I think the profiles I'm seeing are fake or not. It's laughable.

Believe me that tinder has a symbiotic relationship with scammers. Tinder is filled with almost nothing but scam profiles and bots. I wouldn't be surprised if the company is not also creating fake profiles. Tinder accepts all of these fake and scammer profiles because I believe that relatively few real people even use tinder. I imagine there are enough new people coming on board that are faked into believing that tinder is full of all of these great amazing beautiful people that are using the app. Tinder, I imagine, is able to scam these new people out of money and scam desperate people out of money. So they allow the fakes and scammers to create a working scam profile where people are getting messaged and it looks like there's a lot of people using the site and they accept all these scam profiles so that they can make money off of the new people they are able to scam who come on board and do not know any different. The fakes and scammers are allowed to use tinder with impunity and without fear of losing their profiles. They are making millions off of scamming people. So the symbiosis is scammers provide an endless supply of profiles for tinder. In return for doing this Tinder allows them to scam real people who use Tinder. What does Tinder get? Well they get a lively site which entices plenty of new people to come on board to be tricked into paying Tinder.

I see these positive reviews of Tinder on review sites and I imagine these positive five-star reviews are as fake as the majority of profiles on tinder. I'm not sure why tinder feels the need to ask their own users whether or not they feel the profiles they are being shown are fake or not? They need to get off of their butts and just read the online negative reviews that should be able to tell them everything that they need to know.

Look, tinder and their owner, the match group, are not a dating site and care nothing about creating relationships or getting people together. This is nothing but a money grab. Anyone who pays for any of these relationship sites specifically tinder or specifically any of the match group sites is throwing their money away. You don't need to pay to have a terrible experience. Paying these sites for any kind of subscription does not increase your chance of getting a relationship. It probably increases your chance of getting scammed.

When you pay tinder or any of these match group dating sites, you are just giving them money and they owe you nothing and return. Just because you've paid money doesn't give you any protection. You will be fed the same scam and fake profiles and you have probably a greater chance of being scammed by paying them money. Look, these are bad companies and bad websites and they have turned these online dating sites into nothing but a scam money grab. It is dangerous because you are coming into contact with tons of scammers and it is dangerous for your mental health.

I'm not saying that you shouldn't use these sites but I am saying you should never pay for them. When a company comes out and asks their users how they feel about fake or scam profiles it tells me one thing. It tells me that they are not policing their site and are not protecting their users from scammers and fakes. It shouldn't be a question of user feelings but rather they should know how many fake and scam profiles they have on their site. Like I said, a conservative number based on my experience is 90% or more are fake, or bot, or scammer profiles.
Why should you believe what I'm saying? Don't believe me. Go ahead and spend some time on multiple reviews sites looking at the negative reviews. You will find one thing in common. All of the negative reviews are very well written and intelligent and appear to becoming from sincere reviewers. Many of these reviewers will have multiple reviews to their name. Most of them will be complaining about being scammed out of money and many will complain about the fakes and scam profiles. When you look at all of the five-star reviews you will find a few things in common too. You will see that they are usually poorly written and do not appear to be coming from the same intelligent reviewers. They are usually very short and they usually will come from a reviewer with one or two reviews. Please know that tinder is able to pay people to get fake positive reviews for their sites. I bet the reviews are coming from a bunch of people in a Nigerian sweatshop as this is what those five star reviews sound like. It ends up driving up the nonsensical total stars that these review sites give to tinder but when you dive down deep into the actual reviews you will see that most of the five-star reviews are fake reviews that have been paid for or created by bots and that the negative reviews, based on a normal logical person evaluating them, seem to be more real.

So you must ask yourself what kind of a company goes out and tries to deceive people with filling up review sites with hundreds and thousands of fake five-star reviews and at the same time filling their site with fake and scammer and bot profiles (other than another match group dating site or Bumble...). Is this really something that you should feel comfortable or a company you should feel comfortable giving your money to? Ask yourself what you are getting for giving them your money.

Ask tinder what they are doing to protect their customers. They say they rely on users to report fake profiles. Look, you're not being paid to report fake profiles and clean up tinder site for them. This is an online internet company with dozens of IT specialists working for them. They would be able to clean up their site in a heartbeat if they wanted to. They would be able to protect customers from fakes and scammers if they wanted to. The reason they don't protect you is because they are making a boatload of money by allowing these scammers and fakes on their site.

Looking at it from another perspective, there is no incentive for them to get you a date. Their business is based on making money off of people that are single. Single people are their way of making money. It would be counterintuitive to match these people. That's why the site is set up like a game and there are multiple psychological tricks built into the site to keep you on there and entice you to pay. They want to frustrate you into believing that paying for any of their options is going to make it possible for you to find the love of your life. It's not going to happen because everything that they have built into their site or application is to keep you on there, keep you using it, keep enticing you to pay money and to be able to keep showing you advertisements.

The government has regulated The gambling industry. The gambling industry has to have payouts of a certain percentage. Tinder and other match companies are like the gaming industry without any regulations on payout.

So when tinder starts asking their users whether or not they feel tinder is full of fakes, the game is up friends. Tinder is not going to clean up their act but they are going to try to find a way to change this perception of their users without giving up their money. Better yet they are going to try to change this perception and make more money. I bet you the next iteration will be Tinder selling an option for users to pay money to limit the number of scammers you are shown.

In reality, there are only a fixed finite number of single people looking for dates in your community. I doubt there's more than a few hundred and probably even less in your particular dating circle. If tinder just showed you real people in your community then you would see them all in one sitting and say oh hell no. I'm out of here. I'm not paying for this crap. Then maybe you would check in every month or so to see if there's new fresh blood in the pool. Other than that you would have no interest because it's the same people over and over. How does tinder come up with hundreds and hundreds of people that I flip through every day in my community that are real? My friends it's a scam.

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Tinder is a complete waist of time. I was a Premium Platinum paying member and will also never forgive myself for paying for Boosters which NEVER work and feed you only foreigners which state they are local. I was recieving about 40 likes a day, and all stated they where in my city. When I would write them, they were either in Thailand, Brazil, Venzuela, or somewhere else. Why does Tinder allow profiles to state different locations than where they actually are? I have come to dicover that Tinder is just a complete scam and an incompleted platform just sucking money for no service or purpose. Besides all of this, I was still going to wait and see. Then all of a sudden today I receive a notification that my account had been banned, I am in shock. I have never done anything wrong, I have identical profiles at many other sites, and yet I was banned without any explanation. I had NOT written anything, or been anything but polite and serious on the platform. I have never used any emotions or anger or any false photos etc. There is absolutely no reason why I could have been banned, and yet I was. After waisting so much time, and so much money ONLY for headaches and having to talk to foreigners which had been falsely located by Tinder itself. I am now the bad guy? HAHAHA. PLEASE PEOPLE! I WARN YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND SYMPATHY! STAY FAR FAR AWAY FROM TINDER! NOT ONLY IS IT GOING TO ROB YOU AND PROVIDE NO SERVICES, IT IS GOING TO DESTROY PEOPLE LIVES AS WELL! DONT WAIST YOUR TIME! I PROMISE YOU! THERE IS NO LOVE, OR ANY REAL OR SERIOUS PEOPLE ON TINDER! ALL THE DIAMONDS AND GOOD SERIOUS PEOPLE HAVE REALIZED THAT AND LEFT OR BEEN BANNED FOR ABSOLUTELY NO REASON!
GOOD LUCK! TRY SOMETHING ELSE! SAVE YOURSELF THE HEADACHE, FINANCIAL LOSS; AND DISSAPOINTMENT!
DONT LET THIS EXPERIENCE/REVIEW BE FOR NOTHING! YOU HAVE BEEN FAIRLY WARNED!

Tinder, like most dating apps work much better for women. This is ironic because most paid members are men. And, unless you are a paid member you will be limited to how many times you can swipe (right) in a 24 hour period.

Therefore, unless you are a premium user your chances of meeting somebody are slim.

The standard membership doesn't guarantee you anything, only unlimited swipes. Once you pay for the standard membership, you realize that your likes won't be seen until 24 hours have passed. You have to get the premium membership if you want to match right away.

You get a few free boosts with your membership, but if you want more you have to pay for them too.

Boosts do work however, because they put your profile at the top of search results.

Overall, it is possible to match and meet, but at a cost.

Guys keep in mind that some women use Tinder as an ego booster or a game. Some will have insanely high expectations, some will have "baggage", and all kinds of problems that you may only find out about later. Don't trust everything you see or hear!

Beware of scammers. Mostly it's chinese looking women with unverified profiles. Those are fake photos, and it won't even be a girl behind the profile, but some dude trying to get your money out. Investing, crypto currencies, whatsapp scams, etc. Be careful of those. Tinder in China is used alot by scammers.

Once you are chatting, I recommend to exchange numbers. Give it a few days. You can ask politely what the general rule is and when should you exchange numbers. If she refuses to give her number or even gets offended by you asking, she's not worth your time anyway. It's only a number, everybody asks for it, Tinder itself, Facebook, job applications, and so on and so forth... someone who thinks that their phone number is their biggest possesion are delusional to begin with. It's not like asking for an address, now that's different!

Also, you can use PC web version for Tinder. It makes it easier to click with your mouse than swipe on your phone. You can also install a "free mouse clicker" proggie. Leave the mouse cursor on "like" and let it click away. Later you can simply unmatch who you don't want to talk to. Just keep in mind that if you always click "right" it eventually interferes with the Tinder algorythm and your profile will be moved to the bottom of the pile. Use Tinder passport to move to another location or country where you don't want to date, and bomb dislike everybody there to balance it all out. I must have "swiped" on 3 or 4 thousand profiles and matched with at least 30 or 40. Then spoke to a few girls that I found to be the best matches. It works. If you are tall, great looking, rich, etc. it would be easier, but not everyone is. Some guys do pretend though and lie through their nose, and they do get women, but I strongly disagree with it. Don't scam people, that's not cool.

Most important is that you remember, Tinder is a game. A numbers game and it's not really in your favour. But you can win at a cost. It may be easier to meet someone out at a club if you are confident and don't mind approaching girls. No matter what, don't let Tinder ruin your self-esteem. It can happen, and it can make you feel that no girl likes you. It's not true, because there are many men messaging them already. I spoke with one Gold user who said she had matched with over 2000 guys in just a few weeks. You get the idea! That doesn't mean you are not worthy just the competition is big.

I did not know there were so many PATHETIC UGLY GUYS in the world.

Yikes, it was a gargoyle-fest... these guys must do nothing but eat and drink, they are sloppy... and of course, cheat on the wives who despise them, no wonder... the rest are grinning players, you can tell by their cold hearted smiles, they LOOK LIKE LIARS, they are waiting to pounce like vicious animals on women who are only looking for a little happiness.

I honestly believe the French have it right, and prostitution should be fully legal in the US so these guys will leave the nice women alone.

They just want hook ups, so therefore, this should be a free and legal service industry, but no madames or pimps, just as the rules are in France. Prostitutes must represent themselves for all cash transactions or take credit cards. And theybare of course covered by free state sponsored health care.

Phone sex should be a paid professional service too, just pay with a credit card... like everything else you get online or by phone. Sex is just another service, like lawyers.

I cannot believe the world has come to this sad ending, I welcome the apocalypse since there is nothing left but pain and suffering after 15 months of isolation. And women will now be the new victims of phone harassment.

You want a boyfriend? SURE! NO PROBLEM! JUST GIVE YOUR PRIVATE CELL PHONE number to a Complete STRANGER NO PROBLEM...! NO NEED FOR THE MEN TO HAVE ANY OBLIGATION, TALK IS NOT ONLY CHEAP, IT IS FREE 24/7. All men have to do is provide false flattery... and PRETEND TO BE INTERESTED.

Women are now being asked to provide sex on demand, for FREE,
HOW STUPID ARE THEY?

What kind of woman would allow herself to be duped? I will tell you who, women who want to be loved, the biggest new crime of 2021.

Love by the numbers, just line up and get blasted like a cheap internet VICTIM.

After hearing all about the "popularity" of Tinder, and trying the free versions, I decided to try to Gold option... just to give it a full review. Not actively seeking but seeing how it was and how matches were.
After swiping in over 60 countries and cities, literally hundreds of matches (some I still haven't even messaged), here's a few things I've taken away from Tinder

After one full month of Tinder Gold they're a few conclusions:
1. Their customer service SUCKS (even for paid members). Had an issue twice where it wouldn't show any matches at all. Emailed them about it... 2 days later they replied with a basic thing to try which didn't work. Sent back an email to notifiy of this and I'm not able to use the service... they never replied. Eventually, I got it rectified via web search
So if you're paying for their premium service and you're not able to get it to work, you're on your own!

2. Lots of fake profiles! Despite Tinder requiring phone verification or FB and often banning certain accounts; they have one of the highest rates of fake accounts of any dating app!
Add them on WhatsApp and see if they're willing for a video call. This will eventually weed out the fakes.

3. Speak of fakes... watch out for scams. Key ones being: "need money for groceries"... "worried about my college and need money to finish or pay for a month"... "sick kids"... or just direct ones "money for photos or videos"

4. The latter would more come into a service which is another thing Tider is just used for. Primarily escorts and massage therapy are highly publicised here.

Overall if you're really looking for a "relationship" or even just a serious real conversation that "may" lead to something, then this is definitely not the site / app to use! If you're just looking to meet or have ONS with random people then this is perfect but nothing more.
Just be careful and make sure to see persons on video first!

After one month I've met no-one in person and I wasn't actively searching and... if i'm paying for a "virtual passport" why waste it swiping in my own location. Also, after having hundreds of conversations, 99% of them were unmatched or deleted from WhatsApp as an intellectual conversation can be had with the majority of persons that continues past 2 or 3 days. Only 1 match remains an active normal conversation.

Specs: M searching for F
Ages for the review: 23 - 50
Countries: Worldwide (USA, Canada, Caribbean, South Amerca, Central America, UK, Europe, Africa, Philippines, Russia, Thailand, Hong Kong, Fiji, Hawaii, Australia... I'm sure I've missed a few remote countries in this list)
Final stats: 82 matches open chats and 7 unopened

Tinder occasionally send men a fake match... this is to inspire you to buy the product... that's when your problems really begin. They have zero customer service... phone or email... you get referred to a site called get human that charges $40 per month... cant make it non recurring... and all you get is a chat with a robot... my credit card company considers the entire tinder operation a fraud and instantly refunded me. NEVER send Tinder money! The free site is only better because it is free. You get less swipes every day to try to force you to buy the unlimited swipe membership. Don't do it! So, for the last two weeksI swipe LIKE for EVERY profile. I put up a picture of some unbelievably handsome guy and wrote a brief lovely profile that would make me look like the catch of the century and I know what I'm doing as 20 years of being a marketing executive... I've been married... had sex with a lot of women... and am very confident and know what women like... and all of this was tersely and graciously implied in a brilliant profile... not one response at any age range, race, height weight etc... I said YES to EVERY SINGLE PROFILE whether I thought them fake or not... and brother, they're all fake. I realize many of you, if you had the attention span to read this, will disagree and waste your money or time anyway... I can't say 'good luck' because luck and skill do not work with cyber frauds... with zero personnel to contact. I WOULD say, call a lawyer to initiate a class action suit or call the better Business Bureau or Atty General office... they DO pick up a fukkin phone except then you get lost in the bureaucracy which does nothing in the end... And the final point is, and i say this to dudes because they are the only real people who are desperate enough to use these frauds... calla good hooker... spend the money... get exactly what you want sexually... no, they are sociopaths incapable of feeling, true enough, but at least you get your biology satisfied... THE INTERNET IS 99.999% fraud. Don't you get that yet? What will it take? And here gentlemen, I take a low and theatric stage bow... and leave you to your respective follies and desperation with a lost cause... If you are over 20 and not a billionaire, completely forget american females...

With the Evil Empire having acquired all of the major online dating sites -- and now moving into the app business -- I had hoped to make use of Tinder before it was rendered useless. However, I was too late. And when Match Corp. took over OKCupid, the same transformation had taken place. The devious and outright fraudulent behavior that is so openly evident with OKC, Match and POF is now clearly present in the Tinder software system. In other words, the same diabolical programming that has been pulling this on everyone who used their online dating sites is now installed and in operation with Tinder. People who join can look forward to the following special features: real persons who have swiped right on your profile and Liked You are deliberately kept invisible. Instead, you will be treated to a pre-selected small number of either company made faked profiles, or inactive ones that they have elected to put on your activity page. This is also the case concerning the supposed matches, although a little more effort is made to keep you hooked, by having one of their illiterate operatives feign a conversation with you. These must be the budget variety of cyber criminals hired by Tinder -- because they can hardly spell or punctuate.

As with Match -- and its wicked associates operating under the different names listed above -- the idea with Tinder is to keep you hanging on, believing that your lack of success is due to your photos being unattractive or perhaps your essay wording not being quite right. This leads to endless revisions by people, thinking they just have to improve their profiles a little to make the system work. The Tinder ownership and management must find this to be amusing, since they are running a site which is designed to prevent people from finding each other.

In my other review here, I opened up OKCupid like a Christmas turkey -- and went into great detail about how the system programmers for Match Corp. have created a completely artificial environment for the members to experience on their dating sites. Welcome to Tinder. The other real members on the site either can't see you at all, or, they do see you -- but when swiping right -- you never see it shown on your message page (Tinder Plus). It's tough to take, but those hours of sifting through hundreds of profiles on Tinder weren't going to be productive of anything. The system is designed to prevent you from meeting anyone. Please re-read that last sentence, slowly. Yes, and that is the horrible truth about the Evil Empire's dating sites and its outright contempt for good people.

The number of real profiles I've read -- with the gals lamenting that the guys match, but never say anything -- are astronomical. I hate seeing this happening and it was part of my inspiration to contribute here on the review site. Yes, well, OF COURSE they don't say anything to you -- they can't. They don't really exist. The guy you right swiped on is probably already married to someone and doesn't even know that he's still being featured on the site. This is the same for us guys, with the stream of inactive profiles to plow through -- and of course -- there's the site-made variety of faked accounts to consider. Personally, I prefer the crooks on OKC, because they can at least carry a conversation. The pay rate is clearly better for the cowards and losers employed by Match and OKC to defraud people. Let's examine some of the writing by the company paid fraud artists used by Tinder, shall we? It's time for some comic relief. It's been reported here that Bumble appears to have all of its profiles written by the same person? Yes, they are. Whoever said that is dead on and thank you for contributing to the effort here. Oh yes, I wasted my time and money there for a while. I then went to Clover, in the hope of finding an independent app that wasn't doing this to people. Well, ahem, there are no real members even active on the entire site. Stay away. Jeesh, I got off track there. Let's get back to the comedians who pretend to be members on Tinder. Some of my favorite sayings in the phony women's profiles, which are repeated HUNDREDS of times in the company made fakes, are the following (and notice the spelling): *** I love to wear six inch heals *** please don't waist my time here ***. Well, I do hope that their shoes HEAL them and that their WAIST is OK. Good grief. That's rather shocking grammar usage for gals listed as being CEO's in their profiles! And remember, these aren't independent scammers from Nigeria doing this, these are people employed by Tinder.

I'm afraid that with the monopoly now in place by the Evil Empire, we are all stranded and have been betrayed by the horrible ownership and people participating in these company made hoaxes. Lastly, I would say that if these phone app companies were honest, they'd be fantastic. I like the simplicity of using them. And although I'm not into hook-ups, it's clear that the ORIGINAL Tinder was a terrific app -- and thousands of real people found real people there. That sounds nice, doesn't it? We are presently in a world of darkness in the online dating industry and the commission of fraud by this corporation's dating site companies is being done RIGHT OUT IN THE OPEN now. Be on the lookout for the next wave of smaller dating sites being gobbled up by Match Group, as a complete monopoly is presently taking place.

Just remember this: it wasn't YOU being rejected on these sites -- it was the greed minded Match Group Inc. ownership, the trick software systems now being used by them -- and their scummy henchmen -- that engineered your bad experiences there. (And I do hope some of them are reading this). It's almost like we need a giant Pest Control Exterminator Service to come in and just sterilize the entire online dating industry. Seriously. And then, perhaps, a new dawn.

As always, many thanks to the folks who took the time to write in about their experiences with the new Tinder here. I marvel at the other review sites online that are showing 4 1/2 stars as a review rating for this app! Oh yes, the Evil Empire also has its operatives running convincing fake review sites -- and there's several of them presently active. Keep in mind that the revenue generated by Match Group and its crime syndicate is in the hundreds of millions of dollars. They can afford to buy as many phony review sites as they see fit.

My compliments to the ownership of this site, in providing a free speech forum to help us all from being taken advantage of. It has helped me many times.

Take care everyone. Peace.
And don't let me catch you on one of those awful sites again.
Promise? OK. :)

I'll start with the only reason I tried Tinder was because of positive results from some other people who ended up in relationships.
I have been on and off Tinder a few different times now so my opinion is the men that I either chatted with, messaged, or had an actual conversation with, and the few I met in person were not the type of men I would be attracted to or interested in the real world if I was just out and about. Also with all the numerous men I communicated with I actually only decided to meet two in person.
The men I did meet in person did not look anything like the pictures on their Tinder profile, really pissed me off there. Both of these men had to be a minimum of 100+ pounds over weight, EASY! One guy I met all he talked about non stop was his ex-wife and her new boyfriend and child support and going back and forth to court, etc. the other guy I met this guy cussed so much it was unreal, literally every other word was profanity and again he looked nothing like his picture and upon meeting he asked me very inappropriate questions about my personal life. All the other men that I only just talked to by phone were basically the same; they just talked about their ex-wives non-stop, or they talked about themselves non-stop and trying to promote their business, and another guy I spoke to by phone a few times, we actually were supposed to meet up; he cancelled twice so after that I cut off communication. Then a guy I spoke to only by phone claims he was out of town and could not meet up but would "fly" back to meet me later sometime (yeah right). Tinder is no different than all the online dating sites its filled with these people who are out for either just sex, the men are already in relationships or married, the men are not serious at all not even just to do a quick meetup, and in my opinion the men are simply just playing games and wasting everyone else's time in the process. It seems to me the men on Tinder and many sites like POF are like that "bottom of the barrel" men, these are guys you wouldn't notice on the street, nor would you be interested on any level. So in addition to all that from an intellectual view, the men I spoke to couldn't even hold an intelligent conversation, one of the guys I spoke with was asking me all these questions like "what's my favorite color"?, and it seemed like to me he probably googled questions to ask because he had no clue how to carry on a conversation whatsoever. Seriously this is what I was dealing with on Tinder and for me it was just a waste of time, I was just hoping to meet someone to maybe go out and date and get to know, these guys didn't even make it to that level the majority of them didn't last after the first real conversation. Also I can't even tell you how many times I swiped left. The age range for these men were between 35-45 years old. Sad..