I've been with this so called service since it was known as ChnLove. They changed the name to avoid the bad press associated with it.

I've have had plenty of interactions with the so called ladies. I've finally developed a good series of conditions that prove it is totally hogwash. I now know for certain that not one of those ladies is legitimate. They are all robots or sitting at a terminal writing what I want to hear. They also write trash that I don't want to hear.

If you sign on you will immediately be bombarded with chat requests. That's the robots taking over. Don't bother answering any of them because they are absolutely fake. If you want to avoid that trash then switch to the hidden mode. Then you won't be annoyed by those robots.

Your normal setup is to be open to receive "Admirer Mail". Just like the chat system they begin to show up almost immediately. They will almost all suggest that you use the reply button. That will set you up so that a robot can begin pretending to be someone real. Don't bother. You can try going to her profile and sending a letter directly. I'm not certain if that bypasses the robot or not. Most likely not.

Some of the letters that they will send will be real tear jerking letters of how miserable their life has been and that they are looking to find someone to love them. Some claim to have done well in business as a result of their painful experiences. Some have had horrible relationships which, having done my research, is not unbelievable. Asian men are known to be total $#*!s toward women. It's part of their culture.

A good way to tell if it is a robot or baloney is if they say they have read your profile many times and love everything about it. That's just an outright lie. They haven't read one word of it. I have written my profile so that it will tell me if any woman is real or just a robot. There are certain things within that document that they must reference if they want a reply. There is also a code word that they must include in their first letter or they will be ignored. That is very blatantly displayed in the profile. The only time they have managed to use the secret squirrel password is after I tell them to go read my profile. Then they include what I want but, it's too late. Not one has ever sent me a first letter with the proof that they have read my profile. Not one!

The women in the photos are mostly all models. They may be paid for their photos. Some may be presented by agents that are bilking the ladies with promises of finding a husband. The photos may be stolen. The chances that you are actually communicating with the woman in the photos is extremely low.

One of the best tip offs that she is bogus is when she starts to tell you within the first several letters that she loves you and that you are the man for whom she has been searching. Then, when you stop writing that lady keeps writing as if nothing has changed and that you are still responding. It's all part of the robotic programming. It's all hogwash.

The conditions to be able to communicate outside of the AsiaMe service are that you and she write ten letters to each other. You mus also apply for the Qpid Seal and Submit IMBRA Disclosure. That process will set you back 10 credits. Remember, you've already spent 10 credits to read her letters and 10 more to respond. Eventually, she will either approve or deny you access to her contact information. Just realize that she and the company no longer get paid for any letters or translations so any interest from her will die off very quickly. I know because I've done this a few times. Each time it was the same.

The way the ladies write is another giveaway about them being robots. The writing styles can be very similar with different ladies. That's not a normal thing in the real world. Also, I have found a number of different profiles that had exactly the same sentences and phrases in them. I mean right down to the punctuation and spelling errors! That is even more impossible in the real world. Once maybe but, three, five and even ten times is impossible.

Remember that Admirer Mail thing I mentioned? It's amazing how they all seem to come in a specific order. First, the ones from Vietnam. Then the ones from Thailand. Then those from China. They all arrive in batches. Even more interesting is that most of those batches are all from the same region as well. Hmmmmm... Statistics be damned!

Another thing that will tip you off is that if you ask very specific questions you will be ignored. If you do get an answer it will be vague at best. If you ask about certain aspects of their jobs or for them to send a new photo taken someplace specific, it will be as if they never saw that request.

The only praise that I can offer is the people in the support offices. They really are polite and social. They are quick to answer concerns and do appear to be sincere. They even offer little tokens of appreciation such as a few free credits at times or a discount on a purchase. However, it's their job to keep you happy and to make you feel special. They are very, very good at doing their jobs. Regardless, you will still be waiting your money on a snipe hunt because the girls just don't exist.

There are some rather interesting reviews about this site on the web. The way they are written and the stories that have been presented are questionable at best. I am of the opinion that those web sites are actually owned and operated by the same group who owns AsiaMe. The writing styles and everything else when coupled with my experiences are enough to make me very suspicious of them. Actually, I don't believe them at all and I am convinced that they are there to deflect the many negative reviews that are also out there. It's kind of a damage control mechanism.

The truth is that there are no legitimate dating sites on the Internet. The possibility of a fashion model grade lady being on one of those sites who is actually interested in marrying a western man, especially an older one, is somewhere around negative zero! They are all bogus and this one is too.

Anyway, that's my opinion based upon my experiences. I wish it was real. Trust me on that. I really do wish it could be true because I would be thrilled to have one of those ladies as my bride but, it's not true which is what makes it so sad. Save your money. Instead, spend it on a trip to the Orient and meet someone there in person. It will be far less expensive and painful.

Note: This system wishes for me to display some kind of receipt or other proof that I have wasted my money on the AsiaMe web site. I don't have those things. I delete those email notices immediately and have no idea how to make up a screen shot of my bank statement that doesn't give out all of my personal information. I understand their reasons but, this is not going to happen. With that being said, I hope that someone can read this and maybe not get taken to the cleaners by AsiaMe.

Hello,

I'm very disappointed (almost angry) with your dating service currently. By sheer luck, I found one of the women from your site on Facebook and struck up a conversation. She friended me. She said she said she didn't mind talking about the site since it was not (at that time) when she was working (on the site) but using Facebook to communicate. She said I could ask her anything.

I showed her a snapshot of the Admirer letter she wrote me. She verified it was her account. She she also verified she had nothing to do with it. She said the first letters that go out to the men are machine generated. She also said she communicates with men as employment to make money. Because, she said, she gets a percentage of the credits that were paid to the online dating service. And she will use it for travel in the future. She says she earns about 150 dollars a month.

I was shocked! She confirmed that her job was to be friendly and to keep us men in chat longer, email more, call more, cam more. All of which she would get a percentage. She also said she had no real intention of developing a relationship and getting married. I was shocked again!

Now that I know this, is this the situation for all the dating-site *employees*? Am I (and other men) just a paycheck to the women? How would the other men like to know about this?

This fully explains why there is no incentive to start the chat-timer when the woman responsds as she will be paid for every minute in chat as the credits click off the male accounts.

Several times I've seen the credits click off the balance as it takes an unusually long time for them to repspond. A few times I've watched my remaining credits drain away when there is no response. A few times when I've chatted to the employee, credits drain away without there being any response. And no return of credits. There's been times when, after no response and I've noticed I've run out of credits, that the girl will respond asking why I'm not chatting. Checking if I've left the chat. Clearly, had mother credits had been bought, that would have been incentive to keep her money rolling in as this caused an additional purchase of credits.

Well, if the game they play is to chat and eat up my credits in order for them to profit and not have a relationship, then this is a revlation about the Qpid network of dating sites that is very well unknown among the male patrons.

She says she has friends in other dating services that do the same with female hired employees that masquerade as wanting to have a relationship with unsuspecting men.

This also explains why the men have to have the credits to email, chat, and make the phone calls (even if the calls come from the girls). It is all a romance scamming scheme to take more and more money. As long as the men keep giving the money to the system, you're happy that both the system profits and the women profit for pretending to be interested in love.

Since I know this, what I expect is at least one (or more) of four things:

1- full refund for all the money I've spent as I believe the business model you engage in is certainly dishonest. Dishonest to the point of not telling the men they are being willfully robbed of their money with only a slight chance of finding love.

And to say that it is clearly stated to the men in 'fine print' that men willfully OK before getting an account is probably true. None of the men believe that to be the case that they are striking up conversation with someone whom they are renting their services.

2- instead of a full refund, credit my account with the total number of credits I've previously purchased not knowing that I was talking to employees.

3- flip the switch on my account where all of the *women employees* (of the site that receive money from the credits they are responsible for a customer to use on them) to never appear in my dating stream of women again

4- block all machine made words sent to me in chat or email. If I'm invited to chat, I want it to be their words. Not machine words. If they send email... their words. (not machine words automatically generated for them). Since I've been robbed of money being unaware of the women earning money as a hired employee, I expect to be able to chat, email, and call freely.

This is so disturbing.

[note: I have added 8 screenshots of the entire conversation with the CharmLive.com/AsiaMe.com girl by which the conversation occured that confirmed my suspicions. There should be 8 screenshots. All are marked with a "X of 8" black & white button near the top.]

Have been on this site a week, it is a tottaly RIP OFF place. You have to pay ridiculous prices for credits, and it costs credits to do ANYTHING of value, that is the key. They hook you in with free vouchers that you can INITIATE contact with, but once you do and you get a mail from the girl, you need credits to continue the communication.
Credits cost around 8$ each, the lowest buy in is 16$ for 2 credits, and then 16 credits will cost you 96! 100 cill cost you 400!$ reading a mail costs one credit, and looking at pics attached to the mail cost 1/pic (are usually several alot copies of what is already on profile). Watching a vid will cost 4 credits. Once you read a letter then you have to pay 1 credit for EACH response. Chatting is worse at. 5 credits per 5 min, and phone calls are the worst at 1 credit per min (+phone charges on your phone bill for the call to CHINA). The supposed girl will then send you about 1-3 letters a day, usually short that could have been one long letter, so thats about 6 credits to read and reply/day... and they will try to get you to chat or call them where a 16 min phone call will run you 96$ thats an expensive call. Add in the letters and chats you get requests for and they milk you dry real fast.
I thought id be smart and try to get the girls info---in letters... they XXXX out any email or phone# you put in your comms, letter or chat. The girls will say its forbidden and they will be punished. Trying to get them over the phone doesn't work either, any number you get will be disconnected and the email will be from a site *******@163.com wich is a communications site specializing in disposable email accounts kinda like webmail and hotmail were in the USA. That lead me to the realization that the girl i was talking to was likely a paid employee and had no intent of anything other than selling credits. I asked questions about what i look like in the pics i sent and she couldn't answer them, so they were obviously never even seen... yet i paid 1 credit to send said pic in their mail service LOL letters sent were random and out of context, and often failed to answer any questions i asked, particularly the first 3 letters that were obviously pre written fluff pieces that made little sense and ignored anything i wrote in my introduction with generalities and universal greetings. Its a ludicrous scam, stay away!

Further research will show you they once had a diff name, here is the link and proof to their past escapades from a date buster site meant to ferret out schemer's like this online.
https://www.datingbusters.com/real-girls-on-asiame-com-or-fake-profiles-learn-the-truth-in-this-review/

Every "good" comment here is suspicious. How many "good" comment talk about a real meet in life? Maybe not ONE at all...

I tried that site one month long, intensively. I tried to do the good things with 5 girls. Everything on that site is done to prevent people to meet! Censorship of everything you transmit by EMF mail, private inforamtion forbidden, and so on. You have to pay to write and pay to read, spend credits during 90 days, to obtain the right of buying a personal information about the girl: mail address or phone. I dont know what happen at this stage...

And above all, there is a lot of fake profiles, maybe all of them! I've done enough tests now to be on. The Chat is weird, there is only chatbots, what does whatever, very often with implicit sexual content... Not very wise; I saw quickly that Chat is stupid and useless. Even by EMF Mail, you can see that they never talk about the content of your profile and often dont respond to some questions. I believe that people are paid to answer to "customers".

Very often, some girls have weird conversations and start to use dirty talking very quickly, and at least too soon! It is whatever, and a good sign to know it is scam. Everything is done for you to spend more and more "credits", just to receive... nothing; only words gone with the wind.

And if you succeed to have a conversation by the phone directly with a woman, you will find that curiously nothing never works when you share phone numbers or email address, regardless of the person you have a call with, regardless the level of english they have. After your call, neither phone or mail does work, even only once. The phone number does not work at all, even if you have a second call with her to try again and check the informations shared. Your mails return with error 550 (rejected by provider, for content denied) each time. I tried with 5 different email addresses, sometimes without any content, but I received always the same error. Strange, isnt it?;-D

I have spend an average of 250 euros (300 USD) for each girl. I can highly say that nothing can work here,

I clearly think now that absolutly nothing is real on this site; it is a cash-machine totally and exclusively scam. By that way, China can have a lot of foreign currency! But nobody can meet nobody.